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发表于 2022-3-29 09:37:45
【晚8点红包】@绵阳人！你觉得这个时代结婚该不该给彩礼？给多少合适呢？
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color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: 700; font-family: andale mono;"></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word; border: 0px; line-height: 2em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial; text-align: center; vertical-align: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.5px;"><span style="overflow-wrap: break-word; font-weight: 700; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; caret-color: red; color: rgb(222, 58, 50); font-size: 18px; font-family: PingFangSC-Ultralight;"></span><span style="overflow-wrap: break-word; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: 700;"></span><span style="overflow-wrap: break-word; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-weight: 700;"></span><span style="overflow-wrap: break-word; font-weight: 700;"><span style="overflow-wrap: break-word; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">@绵阳人！你觉得这个时代结婚该不该给彩礼？给多少合适呢？</span></span></p><p></p><section style="font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; overflow-wrap: break-word; max-width: 100%; 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text-align: left;"><span style="overflow-wrap: break-word; font-family: Arial; font-weight: 700; text-align: justify; color: rgb(84, 141, 212);"> 小编觉得彩礼还是必须要有的，主要是一种态度，其实钱多少都无所谓，特别是远嫁的女孩子彩礼就更应该要了，这些钱也是为了傍身。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; text-align: left;"><span style="overflow-wrap: break-word; font-family: Arial; font-weight: 700; text-align: justify; color: rgb(84, 141, 212);">但是也是要看具体的家庭情况的，不能为了要彩礼而要彩礼，这样的话就没有什么意思了。<br/></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word;"></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word;"><br/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word;"><br style="overflow-wrap: break-word;"/></p><section style="overflow-wrap: break-word; max-width: 100%; border: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; width: 728.409px; clear: both; overflow: hidden; padding: 0px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="overflow-wrap: break-word; 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顺琪自然
发表于 2022-3-29 14:21:16
彩礼是一种态度，肯定要给的。看家庭情况而定，儿女结婚本来就是两个家庭变成三个家庭，父母适当帮衬这个小家庭是可以的
Anonymous
发表于 2022-3-29 12:30:50
彩礼还是要给的，要不然男方会不在乎的
977876737
发表于 2022-3-29 11:17:59
看我女儿的。男方给10万，我们给10万。扶持这个小家庭。男方一毛不拔，那我也不会给。等老了剩下的就是她的。
蔷薇辉
发表于 2022-3-29 21:05:10
彩礼肯定要给 至于多少其实不重要重要的是那部分态度 在我们绵阳彩礼好像也没有那么重要 甚至于有些女方没有要彩礼反而贴补很多给男方 尤其是独生子女的女方 怕女儿受苦 恨不得全部家产都给男方 但事实上男方百分之九十以上的人都没有这种思想 就想着扣扣瘦瘦的白捡个媳妇回来而且男方犯错误对女方不好的机率还挺大 所以才有现在这么多女孩子恐婚 不愿意结婚的人
没故事的人
发表于 2022-3-29 20:15:31
我女儿是去年国庆节结婚的，男方给了八万，我们也给女儿八万的陪嫁。我们另外给女儿全款买了一套房子，我个人认为还是要给一点，具体给多少，根据男方的家庭情况吧，只要孩子有担当，有责任感，有上进心就好。
半夏殇
发表于 2022-3-29 17:17:03
我生的是儿子，作为以后的婆婆妈，我觉得彩礼该给，但是给多少，不能太离谱。根据家庭经济能力给吧。
微笑清枫
发表于 2022-3-29 14:46:53
不知道给不给，至少我们那时结婚父母一分钱都不会给，现在也过得很好。
海艳
发表于 2022-3-29 13:44:04
肯定要给的，不管多少，至少是婆家人对女孩的认可
Anonymous
发表于 2022-3-29 13:27:49
反正我结婚没收彩礼。我们不存在嫁与娶，我们是单独住，两边都回。:lol:lol:lol
玉儿123
发表于 2022-3-29 13:20:25
怎么不该给？具体给多少视家庭情况而定，动物求偶还知道要搭窝跳舞唱歌吸引异性……
秋月春风
发表于 2022-3-29 09:51:54
可以适当给点，一万以内吧
GZH990701
发表于 2022-3-29 10:49:38
根据自己的情况而定
胥哥哥
发表于 2022-3-29 11:18:33
给啥彩礼嘛，两个人过日子
这片星空这片海
发表于 2022-3-29 11:25:07
无论是之前的婚姻法，还是现在的民法典婚姻家庭编均有规定“禁止借婚姻索取财物”，且规定了所谓彩礼的相应返还条件。虽未禁止双方自愿的财物给付，但并不提倡支付所谓的彩礼。
金圆
发表于 2022-3-29 11:28:47
根据自己情况来定
正本清源028
发表于 2022-3-29 11:38:38
这个必须要！30W起步为佳，你想嘛，一个小孩养大****，30W肯定不够！
977876737
发表于 2022-3-29 11:56:43
这个还是要看父母的能力和想不想让孩子过的好。爱孩子的父母给在多都不觉得亏，不爱孩子的一分都不会给，因为他也不在乎自己小孩过的好不好。
海风1976
发表于 2022-3-29 12:09:50
都是些恶俗…又不是卖人！
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